What To Write On A Bridesmaid Proposal Card (2024)

Alright ladies, spill the tea!

You found your lobster, now it’s time to assemble your dream wedding squad. But before the matching robes and dance floor slay sessions, there’s that all-important first step: asking your besties to be bridesmaids.

We know, we know, it can feel a little pressure cooker.

What do you write?

How sappy is too sappy?

Fear not, future Mrs.!

We’ve got you covered with some inspo to craft the perfect bridesmaid proposal message.

Let’s check them out.

Bridesmaid Proposal Messages For Your Best Friend

1. Remember all those crazy adventures we’ve had? From that epic karaoke night to that time we (accidentally) dyed our hair purple, you’ve been by my side through thick and thin. Now, I’m embarking on a new adventure, and I can’t imagine doing it without you! Will you be my bridesmaid and help me create even more unforgettable memories?
   
   
2. They say diamonds are a girl’s best friend, but let’s be honest, a best friend like you is a true treasure. You’ve laughed with me, cried with me, and celebrated every milestone. My wedding day wouldn’t be complete without you by my side. So, my amazing friend, will you be my bridesmaid?
   
   
3. Picture this: a beautiful ceremony, joyous laughter, and the dance floor packed with our squad. But there’s one missing piece – you! I can’t wait to celebrate this special day with you, my partner-in-crime and confidante. Will you be my bridesmaid and make this dream a reality?
   
   
4. We’ve known each other since (insert time period you’ve known each other), and honestly, I can’t remember a single life event where you weren’t there. From birthday parties to graduations, you’ve been my rock. Now, it’s my turn to stand by you as you become Mrs./Mx. (partner’s name). Will you be my bridesmaid and be a part of this exciting new chapter?
   
   
5. Forget the something borrowed and something blue, I need something more important – YOU! My wedding wouldn’t be the same without your infectious smile and unwavering support. So, my dearest friend, will you be my bridesmaid and join me on this incredible journey?
   
   

6. They say a wedding is all about finding your soulmate, but let’s not forget about the amazing soulmates you already have in your life. And you, my friend, are definitely one of mine! I can’t wait to share every moment of the wedding day with you, from dress shopping to the dance floor. Will you be my bridesmaid and create some lasting memories?
   
   
7. We’ve shared countless secrets, inside jokes, and cups of coffee (or maybe something stronger!). Now, it’s time to share another incredible moment – my wedding day! Will you be my bridesmaid and be the shoulder I cry on (happy tears, of course) and the partner in laughter I know I can always count on?
   
   
8. This wedding isn’t just about me finding love, it’s about celebrating the love I have for all the amazing people in my life, especially YOU! Your loyalty, honesty, and hilarious sense of humor are what make our friendship so special. I can’t wait to have you by my side on this special day. So, will you be my bridesmaid and help me celebrate in style?
   
   
9. Remember all those times we dreamt about our weddings? Now, it’s actually happening for me, and I want you to be a part of it! Will you be my bridesmaid and help me turn those childhood dreams into a beautiful reality?
   
   
10. There’s no one I’d rather have standing beside me as I say “I do” than you. You’ve been my biggest cheerleader and confidante, and I know you’ll be there for me on this special day too. Will you be my bridesmaid and join me in this new chapter of love and laughter?

Bridesmaid Proposal Messages For Your Cousin

1. Cousins by chance, friends by choice, bridesmaids forever? I can’t imagine saying “I Do” without you by my side! Will you be my bridesmaid?
   
   
2. Remember all those crazy childhood memories we made? Let’s add another unforgettable chapter to our story! Will you be my partner-in-crime (and bridesmaid) on my wedding day?
   
   
3. You’ve been there for every milestone, from scraped knees to graduations. I can’t wait to celebrate the biggest one yet with you as my bridesmaid! What do you say?
   
   
4. We’ve shared secrets, laughter, and maybe even a stolen french fry or two. Ready to add “bridesmaid” to our list of shared adventures?
   
   
5. Growing up with you as my cousin felt like having a built-in best friend. Now, I want you as my bridesmaid! Will you join the celebration?
   
   

6. Picture this: us, rocking fabulous dresses, celebrating my happily ever after. Sounds pretty amazing, right? So, will you be my bridesmaid?
   
   
7. From dress shopping disasters to late-night wedding planning sessions, I know you’ll be there for it all. So, will you be my official bridesmaid?
   
   
8. Not only are you my cousin, but you’re also one of the strongest, most supportive people I know. That’s why I need you as my bridesmaid! What do you say?
   
   
9. Our family bond is something special, and I can’t wait to share this special day with you by my side. Will you be my bridesmaid?
   
   
10. Forget the “something borrowed,” how about something borrowed AND a bridesmaid dress? Seriously though, will you be my bridesmaid?

Bridesmaid Proposal Messages For Sister-In-Law

1. Ever since [you entered the family], I knew we were going to be close. You’re more than just my sister-in-law, you’re a true friend. Saying “I do” wouldn’t be the same without you by my side. Will you be my bridesmaid?
   
   
2. Remember all those [crazy adventures] we’ve had together? I can’t wait to add another chapter to our story – my wedding day! Will you join me as a bridesmaid and help make it unforgettable?
   
   
3. From [sharing secrets] to cheering each other on, you’ve been there through thick and thin. I can’t imagine walking down the aisle without your unwavering support. Will you be my bridesmaid?
   
   
4. Getting married is exciting, but having you as a bridesmaid makes it even more special. Your [infectious laugh] and positive energy are exactly what I need on my big day. So, will you say yes?
   
   
5. We may not be blood-related, but you’re family to me. Your [amazing sense of style] would be a huge asset in helping me choose the perfect dress. Plus, I need someone by my side to celebrate! Will you be my bridesmaid?
   
   

6. I’m so grateful to have found my soulmate, but I still need my amazing sister-in-law by my side! The wedding wouldn’t be complete without you. Will you be my bridesmaid?
   
   
7. Picture this: us laughing together, reminiscing about old times, and creating new memories on my wedding day. Sounds perfect, right? Now all I need is for you to be my bridesmaid!
   
   
8. The dress shopping, the bachelorette party, the wedding day itself – I can’t wait to experience it all with you by my side. Will you be my bridesmaid and be a part of all the fun?
   
   
9. They say diamonds are a girl’s best friend, but on my wedding day, I’ll need my best friend/sister-in-law by my side. Will you be my bridesmaid? (P.S. There might be some diamonds involved too ;))
   
   
10. From the moment I met you, I knew there was something special. Now, I can’t wait to celebrate the start of a new chapter with you as my bridesmaid. So, what do you say?

Funny Bridesmaid Proposal Messages

1. It’s official, I’m getting hitched! Now, I need someone to hold my bouquet (and maybe some tissues) on the big day. Will you be my bridesmaid?
   
   
2. Remember all those questionable karaoke nights and dance moves that would make a toddler cringe? Yeah, I need you by my side to recreate them at the wedding. Be my bridesmaid?
   
   
3. Free food, fancy dress-up, and an open bar… need I say more? Will you be my bridesmaid? (P.S. I promise the dress won’t be that bad)
   
   
4. I can’t promise a stress-free wedding planning journey, but I can promise endless laughs and copious amounts of wine. Bridesmaid?
   
   
5. Forget the sidekicks, I need a whole squad! Will you be my bridesmaid and help me conquer this wedding thing?
   
   

6. Consider this your official invitation to witness the meltdown (hopefully not!) that will be me on my wedding day. Bridesmaid? Don’t worry, I’ll come with built-in emotional support (you).
   
   
7. So, I’m marrying the love of my life… but let’s be honest, I’ll still need my best friend by my side. Will you be my bridesmaid?
   
   
8. Warning: May involve excessive picture taking, questionable dance moves, and uncontrollable laughter. Are you in? Be my bridesmaid!
   
   
9. Apparently, adults wear white dresses and say “I do.” Who knew? Will you be my bridesmaid and help me navigate this whole crazy wedding thing?
   
   
10. Diamonds are a girl’s best friend, but bridesmaids are a close second. So, will you be my bridesmaid? (P.S. There might be actual diamonds involved… eventually)